Denis, It's been about 20 years since I was in a similar situation. Even after that amount of time it still hurts when the memories come back. The only advice I can give you is to be as civil to your ex as possible when the child is around. They don't ask to be mixed up in adult issues and of course don't deserve to be in the middle of it either (as I'm sure you know).

Take one day at a time and hold on tight to the things that are solid in your life. You can get the toys and possessions some other time if you still want them.
Dave

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